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Sarina Zoe's avatar

It’s very true, I’ve noticed much of this too. I reckon I’m only charismatic when I’m ovulating, otherwise I’m too shy to be!

This piece reminds me of being ‘happy high status’ from the book How to Own the Room, have you read it? There’s some brilliant examples

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Tanya Mimi's avatar

I must read this book. Thanks for recommending. I feel like I could be charismatic according to this theory above, but I'm too introverted these days ... I just have nothing to prove to anyone :D

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Sarina Zoe's avatar

Yep I feel ya! I think if I was single I’d turn on the charisma 😆

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Tanya Mimi's avatar

We can switch it on

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FenellaC's avatar

So true... reminds me of this! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d96RhfRlOcY

x

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Tanya Mimi's avatar

It's brilliant :)

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Caroline's avatar

“The allure of charisma is profound because it taps into our deepest aspirations: we all want to feel good about who we are.

Charismatic people show us what that looks like.” My dear, you have cracked the code!!

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Tanya Mimi's avatar

Thank you 🙏🏼, Im glad you can see it

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Frederike Herkströter's avatar

Thought of ten names while reading this - perfect observation!

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Tanya Mimi's avatar

Thank you for saying this 💕

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